RJ says, "Mom, can we make those minty sugar balls?"
Sara replies, "No. I don't have time to help you."
  RJ claims, "We will not need any help, Julia and I can do it ourselves."
Sara insists, "No, you will need my help."
  Doug interrupts, "You can do it kids, I'll help you if you get stuck."
  
    
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      | Kids busy at work - notice sugar on Julia's face | 
  
Turns out that Doug spent a decent amount of time 'helping' with things like following directions, finding the ingredients, measuring the ingredients, and cleaning up (although kids did help with everything).